Here’s what you need to know about what’s going on and learn how to find help with growing in self-esteem, self-worth, and self-confidence!!! What is insecurity? The definition of insecurity that stands out for me is the lack of confidence due to mistakes from the past that you or your ancestors made and you still...
When I went through my divorce, I told very few people about it. I felt no one would understand what I was going through. Also, I didn’t want to answer too many questions.Of course, the first thing my friends asked me was if I was in love with someone else. I denied their claims. The...
There is only one phrase that makes the world go round for us humans. It’s the three words “I love you." But wait, there’s more when it comes to getting through to your teenager. Now, there’s more to communication than knowing what to say and that is when to say and how to say it. Saying...
The topic for today is self-love…. What do you do out of self-love? Since love is reflected through actions, I am kicking up my game to another notch. Like my coach says, I am going through an intense self-master class. I can’t do anything without practicing self-love that will make my life seem seamless. To...
People are initially attracted to you for how you appear, but they will stick with you for how you make them feel about themselves. There are two ways to become more attractive. One is by being what it seems like other people want, in essence, blending in with the people considered to be beautiful. The...
As a parent, you have all the power and support of society and the law to help your child under all circumstances — including when they are having relationship troubles. This is especially true when your child is still a teenager and feels stuck between a wall and a hard place. The teenage years are...
Do you feel you have been judged because someone called you a “neat freak” or a “slob?" A neat freak and slob exist at polar ends of a spectrum. Most of us occupy an area somewhere in between these opposites. There will always be someone neater than you — or a bigger slob. The question...
The truth is, no one likes to be told what to do. One of my teachers used to say “don’t advise unless someone asks you for it.” To enjoy and thrive in any relationship, unless you are a project leader or a parent, do you really need to tell others what to do? Children surely...
Most anthropologists will say that the DNA of Homo sapiens is not wired for monogamy. Yet society and religions expect their members to engage in monogamy. People swear to be devoted to their relationship on paper, but their eyes wander and they imagine, visualize and dream. Often, that relationship ends and another one begins which lasts for a...
I once met a lady who was widowed at age 64. As she lamented her loss, two things she said stood out for me. Her husband had never let her take out the trash. To me that’s adorable. She was married for 42 years. The second thing she said made me wonder how much of this...